🗓️ DAY SIX — Adjustment Is Not Losing Yourself

By Bishop Martin Wilson

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🎙️ Opening
Welcome to Day Six of 28 Days of Relational Growth
with me, Bishop Martin Wilson.

🧠 Common Fear

  • “If I adjust… I disappear”

  • “If I change… I lose myself”

  • “If I give this way… who am I?”

⚠️ The Resistance

  • Adjustment feels like surrender

  • Growth feels like erasure

  • Love feels conditional

🔍 The Truth

  • Adjustment ≠ abandonment

  • Learning ≠ losing

  • Growth ≠ weakness

🧱 Immature Love

  • Demands sameness

  • Resists change

  • Protects comfort

🏗️ Mature Love

  • Expands capacity

  • Learns flexibility

  • Protects connection

🔄 Love Language Insight

  • Loving differently ≠ being fake

  • Loving intentionally = being wise

  • Expression can change… identity does not

🔑 Key Truth
👉 You don’t lose yourself by learning how to love better.
You discover a stronger version of yourself.

🪞 Today’s Reflection

  • Where am I afraid to adjust?

  • What feels like “too much”?

  • What am I protecting—identity or comfort?

✨ Closing Thought

  • Love that refuses to adjust stagnates

  • Love that learns continues to grow

Until tomorrow! Be Blessed!!

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